Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

topic posted Sat, April 8, 2006 - 4:44 PM by  Mira
You probably get this a lot, and i'm sorry if you do, but i've been quite eager to meet some lolitas in the San Francisco area. i'm the only loli i know apart from a few who like to dress it for the goth club, most of whom make their own stuff and modify the look quite a bit (so it's more on the end of Victorian Gothic). Mind you, i'm not always the "purest" of gothic lolitas myself, but i'm interested in meeting people who are into gothloli just for itself.
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Mira
  • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

    Sat, April 8, 2006 - 7:21 PM
    Oh there are scads... how I miss the bay area!
    Your best luck would be to hang out on forums for anime conventions in the area, I met a few lolitas who hang on the forums in hopes of meeting each other and for the J-rock. :3
    • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

      Sun, April 9, 2006 - 3:51 AM
      Ehehe... i might get into Lolita Snap, but when i first encountered Lolita Snap my impression was one of bickering children. There is a very good chance i was wrong.
      • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

        Sun, April 9, 2006 - 10:27 AM
        Oh dearie... I'm not fond of Lolita Snap either, everyone's out to get each other there. So yes, your impression was right!
        • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

          Sun, April 9, 2006 - 1:41 PM
          Okay, so i attempted to upload a couple pics there last night; this morning, i get on my computer to find out they've been snappishly rejected. And why? Because in one, i had a bit of whiteface; because in the other, i had a *very* VisualKei style of skill makeup; because in both, i had pink tights. Apparently, according to the (very prissy) moderator, these things qualify both pics as not loli. Gottferboten that i should do gurorori! i wrote her a polite, studious response, pointing out how gurorori is getting fairly common in Japan. We'll see how that goes; apparently girls who like crumpets and tea are okay, as long as the tea isn't black tea and the crumpets aren't her definition of stale. All i can say is dictatorship.

          i mean, i know several Nihonjin loli girls who dress creepier than i do!
          • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

            Sun, April 9, 2006 - 2:23 PM
            yeah... I see girls in much more fetishy shoes than what I wear there...and I wear no more make up than mana wears! (My lipstick is certainly more sensible than his...no one better kill me for that) Isn't Mana THE EGL poster child? cripes. When did he pass on the scepter of supreme loli crumudgeonliness to the lolita snap mods?
            • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

              Sun, April 9, 2006 - 6:41 PM
              Indeed. i just had a hilarous response from the LoliSnap Vice-Empress; i kindly asked her to delete my account. i want to make friends, not get shouted at for (in her words) "not being able to pull it off." In her view, "lolita has rules." Well, then, for her lolita has rules! i don't think she's looked closely enough at the collections of designers like Ba~tsu, Metamorphose Temps de Fille, and Alice Auaa, who violate her precious "rules" constantly. Meta just came out with a camo suit, fer godsakes. :)
              • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

                Sun, December 24, 2006 - 9:44 AM
                did you tell her to go stand on the bridge in harjuku and tell all of them that they aren't loli enough? because I have every issue of egl bible and have been collecting rock magazines like shoxx and cure for years, and I'm sure i can find hundreds of pictures of both designers and individuals that break ANY of the rules she can nazi up. maybe I should go there, steal her pics, and re-post them here and point out all HER flaws.
                who the fuck does she think she is to be the loli police hahahahaha. bet she even thinks viv sato is a woman.
                • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

                  Mon, January 8, 2007 - 7:37 AM
                  Hahahaha... "Lolis aren't allowed to have horrendously overdone and bizarre hairdos!"

                  "Vivienne Sato is a drag queen, and not a loli besides, ya doof!"

                  "WHAAAAAT?!?!?!?!"

                  :D Yes, that would be funny.
    • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

      Sat, June 10, 2006 - 11:12 AM
      I will be coming to san fransisco on vacation and would like to connect with some other lolitas BUT would like to meet some friendly relaxed ones (there are some bossy divas out there)

      if you know of a fun bunch (and where I might connect with then online (forms and / or email) would LOVE to connected with like minded folks)

      would be especially fun to connect with those who sew (and are resouseful)and make there own costumes etc (nstead of those who just brag about what designer lolita labels they have)
      • Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

        Tue, June 13, 2006 - 2:44 PM
        i can't brag about all the Loli labels i own, since i only have a couple pieces from Putumayo, an A+ Lidel shirt and a headdress, and i only even have those because i was actually in Japan. i'm not the type to collect closetfuls of Meta and Moi~meme~Moitie (and a mountain of credit card debt); the label isn't the point, and it's not worth buying unless it's pretty on its own merit anyhow. i do love the Lolita and Aristocrat looks, though, and i enjoy going out all dressed up.

        i don't really sew much of my own stuff, but i'm looking to learn over time! :-)
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          Re: Lolis in the San Francisco Bay Area?

          Mon, August 21, 2006 - 2:02 AM
          That's funny... I grew up in Santa Cruz, went to school in Berkeley and SF now I live north of Sac., like a hermit in the mountains... 36 and still dressing goth. :)

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