yeah, I've never liked her, I remember when no doubt first got big. and the whole time I'm thinking god damn she just CAN NOT sing!
probably one of those paula abdul types that has to be made listenable in a studio

being someone active in the BD/SM and kink scene, i don't at all like the concept of "sluttiness," as i don't think there's anything wrong with having and enjoying safe and responsible sex as often as one likes. Be that as it may, it does seem distinctly un-loli to wear skimpy or revealing clothing. i don't, however, have a problem with the fetishization of loli. People can and will find anything sexy, depending on their inner psychological triggers; i personally do find loli and schoolgirl outfits sexy, but i don't wear them for the purpose of sexiness or sex. Similarly, i love corsets and find them very sexy, and i plan to get a corset made and start corset-training - but not for the purpose of sexiness. Rather, it's simply expressing what naturally emerges from me, and doing something i find pleasurable and self-discplining in a positive manner. Loli is the same; i wear it because it seems natural to me, and a healthy way to express myself. it's about personal experience, moreso than outer image.